Conducting Performance Reviews

When I first asked my team for feedback, the room went SILENT. Why? Because speaking the truth felt too risky. This isn’t just my story, it’s the reality in countless workplaces. Here’s the truth: feedback is a minefield. 🔴 Done wrong? It breeds tension and mistrust. 🟢 Done right? It fixes problems—it transforms teams. Here’s how to get it right: 1/ Timing Is Everything ↳ Feedback during chaos? Disaster. Wait for a calm moment. ↳ A private 1-on-1 works best. 💡 Pro Tip: Start with a positive comment—it sets the tone. 2/ Lead With Solutions ↳ Complaints without fixes = noise. Solutions = action. ↳ Try this: “We could avoid confusion with more clarity upfront. What do you think?” 💡 Pro Tip: Frame solutions as support for the team’s success, not criticism. 3/ Be Clear, Not Cryptic ↳ Instead of “Communication could be better,” say: ↳ “Inconsistent updates slow me down. Weekly check-ins might help.” 💡 Pro Tip: Use examples to back it up—clarity builds trust. 4/ Use “I” Instead of “You” ↳ Feedback isn’t a blame game. Stick to “I” statements to share your perspective. ↳ Example: “I feel I don’t have enough autonomy to contribute fully.” 💡 Pro Tip: Highlight how solving the issue benefits the whole team. 5/ Know When to Let It Go ↳ Pick your battles. Save your energy for what really matters. ↳ Does this impact the team or my work? If not, let it go. 💡 Pro Tip: Focus feedback on what aligns with team goals. 6/ End With a Vision ↳ Great feedback doesn’t just fix problems—it builds something better. ↳ Paint the big picture: “Here’s how this change could help the team hit the next level.” 💡 Pro Tip: Vision-driven feedback inspires action. The takeaway? Feedback isn’t about proving you’re right, it’s about progress. Master these steps, and you’ll not only solve problems, but you’ll also earn respect and trust. What’s your biggest feedback fail (or win)? Share it below. 👇 ♻️ Repost to help your network get better! ➕ And follow Shulin Lee for more.

Imagine working hard all year, thinking everything's fine. You hardly get any feedback, just occasional praise or suggestions. But then, out of the blue, comes the yearly appraisal meeting. Suddenly, you're bombarded with criticism, caught off guard. It feels demoralizing and confusing. Why weren't you told earlier? Trust falters, and motivation suffers. Sound familiar? Now, imagine a different scenario. Throughout the year, you receive regular feedback - small, yet valuable insights on your performance. Your manager provides guidance, acknowledges your achievements, and points out areas for improvement. You feel supported and encouraged to grow. When the time for the annual appraisal meeting arrives, it's not a dreaded surprise. Instead, it becomes an opportunity to reflect on your progress, discuss goals, and receive constructive input. Trust between you and your manager deepens, and your motivation remains intact. This scenario highlights the importance of regular feedback. When feedback is given consistently, it empowers employees to enhance their performance, make adjustments, and achieve their full potential. It builds a culture of continuous improvement and ensures that annual appraisals become positive and productive discussions rather than demoralizing surprises. Small feedback given regularly is coaching. Big feedback given erratically is an ambush ⭐ If you found this message resonating, share it with your network. Let's start a dialogue on the importance of regular feedback in the workplace. #corporatelife #appraisal #linkedinforcreators #FeedbackMatters #ContinuousImprovement

If your feedback isn't changing behavior, you're not giving feedback—you're just complaining. After 25 years of coaching leaders through difficult conversations, I've learned that most feedback fails because it focuses on making the giver feel better rather than making the receiver better. Why most feedback doesn't work: ↳ It's delivered months after the fact ↳ It attacks personality instead of addressing behavior ↳ It assumes the person knows what to do differently ↳ It's given when emotions are high ↳ It lacks specific examples or clear direction The feedback framework that actually changes behavior: TIMING: Soon, not eventually. Give feedback within 48 hours when possible Don't save it all for annual reviews. Address issues while they're still relevant. INTENT: Lead with purpose and use statements like - "I'm sharing this because I want to see you succeed" or "This feedback comes from a place of support." Make your positive intent explicit. STRUCTURE: Use the SBI Model. ↳Situation: When and where it happened ↳Behavior: What you observed (facts, not interpretations) ↳Impact: The effect on results, relationships, or culture COLLABORATION: Solve together by using statements such as - ↳"What's your perspective on this?" ↳"What would help you succeed in this area?" ↳"How can I better support you moving forward?" Great feedback is a gift that keeps giving. When people trust your feedback, they seek it out. When they implement it successfully, they become advocates for your leadership. Your feedback skills significantly impact your leadership effectiveness. Coaching can help; let's chat. | Joshua Miller What's the best feedback tip/advice, and what made it effective? #executivecoaching #communication #leadership #performance

Delivering constructive feedback is part of leadership. The goal isn’t to avoid these conversations, but to approach them with the mindset of driving results and encouraging behavior change. The challenge is that feedback often means delivering a message you know the other person may resist. That’s why it’s not just about what you say, but how you say it, because if the person becomes defensive, the message won’t land. In my experience leading teams, this is how leaders can have conversations that drive results while still making their people feel supported and motivated: 1️⃣Put yourself in their shoes. If your performance was holding you back, you’d want to know. But you’d also want to be told in a way that respected your effort and potential. That’s the perspective leaders need to take. 2️⃣Start with appreciation. Anchor the conversation in value. Recognize what the person is doing well, then connect feedback to how they can have an even greater impact. This shows you’re investing in them, not criticizing them. 3️⃣Frame your words carefully. Framing makes all the difference. If you accuse, people defend. If you share perceptions—“This is how it’s being received”—you open space for dialogue. That’s when people feel safe to explain their intent and work with you on solutions. The real goal is for them to know you’re on their side. You’re having the conversation because you see their value and want to help them be their best. When leaders approach difficult conversations with the intent to support, invest, and help their people grow, those conversations stop being difficult. They become constructive. 📌How do you approach constructive feedback?

Giving hard feedback is a challenge I've faced many times as a leader. One particular instance that stands out involved a team member I respected deeply but who had recently begun missing key deadlines. I knew I had to address it, yet I wanted to do so in a way that preserved their motivation and confidence. This experience taught me the importance of careful preparation and a thoughtful approach when delivering tough feedback. First, I make sure I'm clear about the specific feedback I want to provide. Second, I understand that hard feedback should always be delivered in private, and both the recipient and I should be in a calm and receptive state of mind. When sharing feedback, I focus on specific incidents and use "I" statements to describe my observations. For example, I might say, “I noticed you handling this situation differently than usual. I'd like to discuss how we can approach it more effectively.” I also emphasize the importance of this feedback for the person's growth and development. We all need feedback to grow. Without it, organizations can develop unhealthy habits, such as avoiding conflict or only giving positive feedback. This can lead to unresolved issues that damage morale and hinder professional development. 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐃𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐇𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤: ➝ 𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐅𝐨𝐮𝐫-𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐒𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐦𝐞: Start with specific examples, share your feelings, explain the consequences, and state your expectations. ➝ 𝐅𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫, 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫: Separate the individual from their actions to avoid defensiveness. ➝ 𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐒𝐚𝐟𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭: Conduct feedback conversations in private and ensure confidentiality. ➝ 𝐁𝐞 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐓𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐁𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐋𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞: Maintain a calm tone and avoid judgmental language. It’s also important to remember that hard feedback doesn’t have to be all negative. I always try to highlight the positive aspects of the person’s work while addressing areas for improvement. My goal is to deliver the feedback in a way that is constructive and encourages growth. What about you? How do you handle delivering tough feedback? Any strategies you find helpful? #feedback #mindfulness #peoplemangement #leadership #LeadwithRajeev

Most leaders don’t struggle to give feedback because they lack good intentions, they struggle because they lack the right frameworks. We say things like: 🗣 “This wasn’t good enough.” 🗣 “You need to speak up more.” 🗣 “That project could’ve been tighter.” But vague feedback isn’t helpful, it’s confusing. And often, it demoralizes more than it motivates. That’s why I love this visual from Rachel Turner (VC Talent Lab). It lays out four highly actionable, research-backed frameworks for giving better feedback: → The 3 Ps Model: Praise → Problem → Potential. Start by recognizing what worked. Then gently raise what didn’t. End with a suggestion for how things could improve. → The SBI Model: Situation → Behavior → Impact. This strips out judgment and makes feedback objective. Instead of “You’re too aggressive in meetings,” it becomes: “In yesterday’s meeting (Situation), you spoke over colleagues multiple times (Behavior), which made some feel unable to share (Impact).” → Harvard’s HEAR Framework: A powerful structure for disagreement. Hedge claims. Emphasize agreement. Acknowledge their point. Reframe to solutions. → General Feedback Tips: – Be timely. – Be specific. – Focus on behavior, not identity. – Reinforce the positive (and remember the 5:1 rule). Here’s what I tell senior FMCG leaders all the time: Good feedback builds performance. Great feedback builds culture. The best feedback builds trust, and that’s what retains your best people. So next time you hesitate before giving hard feedback? Remember this: → You’re not there to criticize. → You’re there to build capacity. Save this as your cheat sheet. Share it with your teams. Let’s make feedback a tool for growth, not fear. #Leadership #FMCG #TalentDevelopment #PerformanceCulture #FeedbackMatters #ExecutiveDevelop

The most dangerous kind of feedback isn’t the harsh kind. It’s the kind that sounds fine but changes nothing. Leaders waste hours repeating the same points, wondering why nothing sticks. It’s not laziness on your team’s part. It’s that your words aren’t sparking movement. Here’s what separates feedback that shifts behaviour from feedback that disappears into thin air: 1. Trust before talk:  No trust, no change. People listen with half an ear when they feel judged. 2. Precision over politeness:  “Work on your communication” is vague. Try: “When updates are last-minute, the team scrambles. Sharing earlier would prevent the chaos.” 3. Show strengths before gaps:  When you acknowledge what’s working, people are more willing to improve what isn’t.  For example: “Your presentation was clear and engaging. Adding data at the start would make it even more convincing.” 4. Behaviours, not labels:  Telling someone they’re careless won’t change anything. Showing them the specific action that caused the mistake might. And here are extra ways to make feedback actually land: ➡️Pick the right timing. Feedback in the middle of stress or conflict rarely gets heard. Wait until people are calm enough to absorb it. ➡️ Frame it as a possibility. Instead of only pointing to what went wrong, highlight the potential you see. People lean in when they feel you believe in them. ➡️ Make it a dialogue. Ask “How do you see it?” or “What could help you here?” Feedback works best when it becomes a shared problem-solving moment. ➡️ Anchor to purpose. Connect the feedback to the bigger picture: “When reports are clear, the client trusts us more.” Purpose creates motivation. ➡️ Balance the emotional tone. A steady, calm delivery helps the person stay open. If you sound irritated or rushed, the message gets lost. ➡️ Close with next steps. Clarity comes from knowing exactly what to try next and when you’ll review it together. Feedback is either a lever for growth or a loop you get stuck in. The choice is in how you deliver it. When you give feedback, do you focus more on safety, clarity, or motivation? #feedback #difficultconversations #work

Annual performance reviews waste 12 months of potential growth. I've seen it countless times — talented teams stuck in a feedback drought for 364 days, then drowning in a flood of evaluation on day 365. Let's be honest: 🚫 What could have been corrected in January festers until December. 🚫 What deserved celebration in March is forgotten by November. 🚫 What needed redirection in June becomes a crisis by year-end. HR leaders, there's a better way. Scrap the annual marathon and implement "quarterly 15-minute check-ins" instead. Yes, just 15 minutes every 90 days between managers and their team members. No massive write-ups, no dread-inducing meetings — just frequent, human conversations focused on growth. Here's why this creates exponential improvement: ➡️ Problems get addressed when they're still small ➡️ Wins get celebrated while they're still fresh ➡️ Trust builds through consistent communication ➡️ Development becomes continuous, not annual ➡️ Managers spend less time writing, more time leading The data confirms what we already feel: 80% of employees say immediate feedback is more effective than annual reviews, yet only 28% of companies have modernized their approach. Try this with one team this quarter. Give them a simple framework:  → 5 minutes: What's working well?  → 5 minutes: What needs adjustment?  → 5 minutes: Focus for next quarter? Watch engagement rise within weeks — no 20-page evaluation needed. P.S. What's holding your company back from breaking the annual review cycle? ♻️ Repost if this speaks to how you're building your culture.

Last year at Goldman Sachs, I had the chance to run a session for new analysts on making the most of end year performance reviews. Thought of sharing some key points I covered here: > Schedule MONTHLY check-ins with your manager. Performance conversations should happen consistently throughout the year, not just during formal review cycles. > Discuss career trajectory openly. Use these sessions to align your professional goals with (a) team goals and (b) your manager's expectations. You must identify skills needed for your role and partner with your manager to upskill. > Document feedback and create action plans. Track what's discussed in these sessions and convert *areas of improvement* into SPECIFIC development goals for the following month. > Proactively request skill-building opportunities. You can use these regular touchpoints to ask for projects that align with your development areas and career objectives. > Follow up with written summaries. While you may have one or two managers, your manager likely oversees an entire team. Sending a brief recap of key discussion points and agreed-upon action items (within 24 hours) helps ensure alignment and demonstrates your commitment. The analysts who applied these pointers came back later telling me how helpful these were. Instead of going with the flow, they had productive conversations about their growth and next steps! 🙂 Perhaps a controversial tip💡: Whether you're an analyst or managing a team, these regular conversations matter more than any formal review process ever will. #CareerDevelopment #Leadership #PerformanceManagement #ProfessionalGrowth #GoldmanSachs